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Want to become a love
magnet? Want to attract true love or improve your
relationship?
Good, because you
deserve to be loved! And, lucky you, I will show you how to attract that
love by working on the person you see when you look in the mirror.
That's right. Although
you're seeking love from another person, you will be more likely to get the
love and attention you deserve by first growing within.
Here are the six
steps you need to take to help you grow in just the right way. The steps
will groom you to attract and engender love.
1. Figure out
your relationship pattern
If you are not
attracting the right partners or not getting enough love in your relationship,
it's probably not the first time in your life. If that's the case, then it's
likely you have relationship patterns that are preventing you from attracting
the right partner or preventing you from behaving in a way that causes love.
Get to know your relationship pattern and your love life will improve (see
last week's newsletter at www.WhatItTakes.com/Archive).
2. Let go of
your past
Most people collect
unpleasantness without realizing it. Every time something unpleasant happens
to you, it goes into a huge sack of other unpleasantness weighing heavily
on your back. You can't move forward in life, and especially in relationships,
with this baggage. You can't move forward emotionally any better than if
you had a real sack weighing 100 pounds on your back. Even if you don't feel
the weight most of the time -- you will feel it in relationships. It feels
like excessive anger, excessive need to control others, reactiveness, fear
and anxiety. Want to drop this weight? Learn to let go of the unpleasantness
in your life and in your past, and I mean really let go.
3. Delve into
your needs
Everyone has needs
-- that's a part of human nature. In fact, our needs facilitate relationships.
The giver and the receiver both feel better and more connected when each
other's needs are voiced and met. Yet most of us are uncomfortable asking
others to meet our needs. At the same time, we all enter relationships to
get our needs met. See the paradox? Figure out your needs, figure out which
ones need to be met by your partner and which ones need to be met by other
people. Get them met!
4. Draw your
boundaries
Boundaries are there
to protect you, and to help you honor your needs and wants, not your "shoulds."
You have boundaries when you can choose to say yes or no to something, someone
or a situation. You have boundaries when you can stop a situation that is
hurting you. You have boundaries when you know your needs and ask others
to respect them. Having boundaries makes you discerning, gives you self-respect,
and inspires other people to both respect you and treat you well.
5. Know what
you want
Know what you want
in a partner and in a relationship. Be careful that what you want is not
a fantasy, unrealistic standards of perfection, or a set of low expectations.
Look at the relationships you value most and model your love relationship
after those. Keep out people who are not a match, invite in those who are.
Stop doing behaviors that sabotage what you want in your relationship and
instead take action to create what you want.
6. Get
connected
Build a community.
Get people into your life to meet your needs, to support you, to nourish
you. Many people want to simply find "the one" or hope they have found "the
one", and then proceed to isolate themselves. What a stress on a relationship!
Can you put all of your needs, wants, desires, interests on one person? Do
you think all of your needs will somehow be met by one Prince or Princess
Charming? We are all social animals in need of community. We have way too
many needs for one person to meet them all. Get connected, and stay connected.
Your Relationship
Coach,
Rinatta Paries
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How Would You Like to Finally Find a
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and in Your Relationships and Your Dating Arena?
Are you tired of the women in your life
always holding the power? Are you tired of being a really, really Nice Guy,
and constantly being 'punished' for it by being rejected, walked over, or
taken for granted?
If you're a man, be it a self-proclaimed "nice-guy"
or a self-appointed "bastard" you probably caught yourself nodding your head
in agreement when you read the above headline.
"....constantly being
'punished' for it by being rejected,
walked over, or taken for granted..."
Heck,
as a man I know I did at one time. I have to admit I was a "non-bastard".
A "down-to-earth, always respectful of women, will always give in to make
the woman happy - nice friggin' guy", who had absolutely zero power in
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